... and there dont seem to be any shorted Tantalums on it ...
If there were any, they would overload the power supply, resulting in the power supply shutting down (although the fan may still turn in some cases), resulting in no output voltages.
... i feel its gotta be a ram chip because what else could it be right? its not like random IC's go bad and even if they did, it wouldn't stop it from posting... right? right?
Random IC's can go bad, and some will stop the POST from even starting.
However, if you look at the list at [
here], RAM chip failure is relatively common, and so it is good to eliminate it as a motherboard-no-start cause.
... and where can i buy these ROM chips
Does anybody here have a set of BIOS chips with the Supersoft / Landmark bios on it that I can borrow while I try to get this sorted out.
For the IBM 5160, you only need one ROM/EPROM, and that fits into socket U18.
If you can't get a loan of one, some people/companies that can create an EPROM hosted one for you are shown at [
here]. The image that the person/company would burn into the 27256 EPROM is available via [
here]. Per that site, if your 5160 has the 64KB-256KB version of motherboard, the NEC µPD27C256 is unsuitable for the task.